Hey. Who is this?

What’s your name? Or should I call you “. .”

Good morning

What do you have going on today?

You better not

I was waiting to talk to you.

Two things before I see you, because I’d rather you hear them from me than piece them together over dinner.

I’m a Dominant. A Dom. If that word doesn’t mean much to you, the short version is that I lead and the woman with me hands over the decisions. Fifty Shades made it look like contracts and a red room. In practice it’s mostly structure, rules, and someone taking the weight off you.

I’m also not monogamous. There are three women I’m involved with. One lives with me, two are long distance. Everybody knows about everybody.

Your profile says short-term fun, so this may matter less than it sounds. But you get to decide that with the facts in front of you.

So tell me what you’re actually looking for.

That’s a fair ask, and a more thought-out answer than most people manage.

What it looks like in practice: three women, all of whom know about each other. One lives with me. The other two I’ve never actually met in person. We’re hoping to change that before the end of the year, but right now that’s phone calls and messages. So physically, the only other person in my life is the one I live with.

What I’d expect from you at the start is small. Honesty when I ask you something, and telling me when something isn’t working instead of going quiet. Anything beyond that gets built slowly, and only if you want it.

What you’d get is someone who plans, remembers, and takes the deciding off you when you’re tired of doing it.

Anything else you want to know, ask it straight and I won’t dress it up.
And my turn, since I gave you mine. Are you bi at all, or strictly men? And are you a cis woman?

Thank you for answering both.
Day to day is more ordinary than it sounds. The one I live with is part of my household. The other two are phone calls and messages, usually in the evening.

None of that would be yours to manage. You wouldn’t have to meet them, coordinate with them, or share a calendar with anyone. When I’m with you, I’m with you, and my phone isn’t running someone else’s evening.

What it does mean practically is that I won’t be available every night, and I’m not going to pretend otherwise.

And slow is right. I’d rather you decide as you go than agree to anything now.

So. Still on for tonight?

Seven, and I’ll pick the place.

I have my daughters today and I’m taking them to a slime exhibit thing. I think I should be done in time for the 7 o’clock but as it gets closer, I’ll let you know if I think I have to push it. You’re in Katy, correct

My phone is (713) 259-9550

I’m still working on that. 😆

You can also come over to my place if you like.

What do you mean?

i’m not sure I understand but, we can do whatever you are comfortable with.

We just finished and I’m driving I will message you in a bit.

Can you tell me what you meant

You want money?

You want me to pay you for a date?

What does that mean?

Reported you. Just tell people you will fuck for money.

Wasting time. Your clothes look cheap too. Charge more next time you sell that dirty snatch.