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September 16, 2026
Hey it’s Randa. I’m sure you are asleep, so you can just text me when you get up. I’m going back to sleep. My alarm goes off at 5 😴
06:38
Good morning cutie.
12:05
Good morning! How are you?
12:07
Good. What’s funny is I set my phone down at like 1:27 am and you messaged me at 1:38
12:09
I had woken up to go potty and I was really hoping I didn’t wake you up by texting you lol
12:19
My phone it pretty much on permanent-silent. You won’t ever wake me
12:22
And what are the ages of your kiddos? You said go potty so I’m guessing younger. 😁
12:23
lol my phones the same way. Unless you are someone important. Then your phone & text tone plays even in silent.
12:28
💀
lol yes I do have some littles. I have 2 girls who are 17 & 15. And 4 boys who are 13, 7, 6, & 5.
12:28
You will probably have to tell me like 50 more times. But that’s great
12:30
I have 2 daughters ages 17 and 13 that live with my ex wife that I see every other weekend
12:30
lol I promise I won’t ever quiz you on their, names, ages or birthdays because I still mix them all up 😂😂😂
12:31
🥰
Aww girls are so much fun! Boys are stinky haha my girls are my literal broke best friends.
12:31
😂
It’s so embarrassing. I’ll take my daughters to do an activity where the need their birthday for a liability waiver or something. The customer service person will ask me their birthday and I look at them and say “Tell them your birthday.” 😂🤦🏻‍♂️
12:33
😂
The way I justify it is I have to ask the people around me how old I am. The crazy part is I was born in 1980. So the math shouldn’t be that hard. But it was Dec 27 so right at the very end of the year.
12:37
😂
I haven’t completely closed Tinder yet because I have a few convos I’m wrapping up but this is cray cray. I just needed to share with someone. 😳
12:52
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12:52
I thought it was just a dark sense of humor, and whenever I would send messages, she would just reply with a ❤️
12:53
🤦🏻‍♂️
12:53
4 of my kids birthdays are in March and April, they are all 2 weeks apart so I constantly get it mixed up. I have a note in my phone with their birthdays lol
12:53
Same. I just ask Siri
12:54
I forget my age all of the time. I was born on Jan 10th so right at the beginning of the year lol
12:54
😂
That’s pretty scary. & sad of she’s actually homeless.
12:55
Yeah. I’m hoping the kids aren’t with her. She is in another state
12:56
I really hope not!
12:59
I’m very good at crushing the energy in a conversation. 😂
13:02
lol you’re fine I pinky promise!
13:20
When do you live? I’m in Katy.
13:35
I live in Tomball & work on jersey village.
13:38
Have you ever had a Dom before or thought about submission?
13:39
I have never had a Dom, but it is something I am open to since I am naturally submissive when I’m in a relationship
13:44
Have you had someone in the past that could carry that submission for you. Unfortunately most men are like giant children.
13:51
No not fully. In some ways yes, but not in all ways.
14:19
Which ways weren't met?
14:47
In past relationships I could be sexually submissive because I enjoyed choosing that dynamic in the bedroom. But outside of it those men never made me feel safe enough to let go of control or trust their leadership. I felt responsible for handling everything, making decisions, protecting myself, & keeping things on track. I need to genuinely respect the man I’m with and trust his judgment to want to submit outside of the bedroom as well. I need to know he considers me, acts responsibly, protects without controlling, & makes decisions with both of us in mind. And I don’t necessarily want my independence taken away or someone to take of me financially, I have that handled, it’s about feeling secure enough that I don’t have to stay in control all of the time. I’ve never really had that. I’ve had men I could submit to sexually, but not one who made me feel safe enough to soften and willingly release some of the control I’m used to carrying.
15:28
If any of that makes sense lol
15:29
It makes complete sense.

What you're describing is the part that takes actual work, and most men only want the part that doesn't. So you've carried it yourself. That isn't a flaw in you.

That's the part I want. Not your independence, not your money. Just the part where you don't have to stay in charge of everything.
19:03
Yes! Most “men” these days want to say they want that, but in reality can’t handle it.

Being in charge all of the time can be exhausting.
19:45
Unless you enjoy it 😈
19:46
lol I’m very much assuming that you do enjoy it.
19:48
I’m usually thinking about the past or the future. Helping my subs turn their brains off requires me to be completely in the present so I can care for them and myself. That’s what I get out of it. Being grounded in the moment.
19:48
I really like the sound of that.

So question, what are you looking for? A relationship or idk what else. lol
19:52
Submission.

In practice that looks a lot like what you'd call a boyfriend. Dates, hanging out, doing things together, me being around. The difference is that first and foremost, you'd be obedient to me.

Everything else gets built to fit you.
19:57
You are strictly straight? Or are you bi curious?
19:58
I am strictly straight.

Are you more of a one girl at a time type of guy, or do you like having multiple relationships going at once?
20:02
More than one, and I'll be specific so you're not guessing.

One lives with me. Two others are long distance, California and Canada, and that's virtual. I don't see them.
It isn't a rotation and nobody's hidden from anybody. They know each other, they talk, they're close. It runs more like a family than anything else, which is probably the point. I didn't have one growing up, so I built the thing I was missing.

What it would mean for you is that you'd never be a secret and you'd never be a stranger to anyone in it. Looked after by me, known by them.
You don't have to have a reaction tonight. New tends to feel like too much before it feels like anything else.
20:17
I’m open to just about anything. But I do have questions lol and I’m sorry if I get too intrusive. What if you fall in love? Or is that not an option for you? What if someone falls in love with you? The one that lives with you, what made you choose her to live with? Do any of the women have kids? If so are you a present person in their lives?
20:29
Never intrusive. Ask all of it.

Love isn't off the table and it isn't hypothetical. I love mine. It's not something I ration or hand out as a reward. What I won't do is promise exclusivity to get there, so love happens inside what I've already told you, not instead of it. Same answer the other way round. Nobody has ever been punished for feeling something for me.

None of the three have kids. I've had subs who did, but it never got that far. Outside of that I've dated women with kids and been around them plenty. I'm good with kids.

I've got my own, and I generally wait until I've known someone about a year before I introduce them. Nothing against anyone, it's just how I look after them.

And since you said you're open. My subs are usually like best friends who fuck. They're bisexual, they like watching, and they like joining in.
20:42
September 17, 2026
Did I loose you?
06:35
No love you didn’t. I’m sorry I was at work late & got home around 10:30.
06:55
I’m sorry baby 😔 I’ll let you get some rest. But I really like what I know about and have seen from you. I hope you will try to keep an open mind.
07:46
Goodnight baby girl. 😘
07:46
Good morning.
16:17
September 18, 2026
Captivating fairy
04:59
???
07:10
?
09:30
Oh I sent a a random string of text to you by accident so I unsent it.

Separately, I was a little disappointed I didn’t hear from you.
09:32
I don’t mean to disappoint you at all. I’m just a little hesitant. I’m typically a one man girl and I can be a jealous girl. So I’m not sure how this would work for me.
10:11
First step is communicating with me and sharing your feelings.
11:59
True. I just am nervous
12:04
Jealousy isn't a flaw, it's information. It tells me where you need reassurance, and handling that is my job, not something you manage on your own.

I'm not going to talk you into anything. Nervous is the right thing to feel about something you've never done, and you don't have to decide anything tonight.

Tell me what you actually picture going wrong. Not the general worry, the specific scene. That's the part I can answer.
12:23
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