Flounzy · telegram
Weekly check-in Tier-1 · sealed weekly container
30 min, once a week. A space to bring feelings
without consequences. Notes build up so you can see patterns.
Next: Sunday 7:00 pm — Sun Sep 27, 2026 · 7:00 PM (in 3 days)
History
No check-ins yet.
Open loops
Outstanding asks, commitments and follow-ups
for this peer. "Mark resolved" dismisses an item permanently.
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Classification
Only personal · romantic gets plans,
drafts, voice retrieval, push & cadence pressure.
Push notifications
On = a new inbound here fires a lock-screen push
with a pre-baked draft, 24/7 (silence on the phone via Apple Focus).
Off = silent. There is no auto-promotion — only peers you toggle on
here ever push.
Lifecycle
Stage history
progressing
stuck → progressing · Wed Sep 16, 2026 · 8:31 AM
Acknowledge the gap, re-center connection
progressing → stuck · Tue Sep 15, 2026 · 8:30 AM
Direct repair: Name the rupture, offer presence
stuck → progressing · Wed Aug 5, 2026 · 8:31 AM
Reinforce earned warmth
Last 3 arc_state transitions, newest first. Logged automatically when a Hermes refresh changes the stage.
Canonical person
⛓ Linked to Flounzy The Banana · cohort: Flounzy, Flounzy::8699968344
Open unified historyMerge / split (admin)
Voice corpus
Auto-on for family & historical. When on, this
peer is never pulled into voice retrieval or used as a sample.
Kill switch
active · mute (silent) · pause (no drafts) ·
presence (pause + no refresh) · off.
Cadence threshold override
Blank = per-channel default. This value is read
by the inbox red-flag, so it changes real behaviour.
Public profile signals
Her own self-description on the platform. Fed to the big brain BEFORE conversation history as "what she says she wants". Re-captured every 7 days.
telegramcaptured 2026-09-18 05:16
@Flounzy · shown as Flounzy The Banana · 3 chats in common with Don
Current plan (conf 0.9)
Where it stands: Warm and compliant. She is invested in the dynamic and responsive to directives, but the conversation has stalled on logistical details (travel planning).
What's blocking: The conversation is stuck on logistical details (travel planning) without clear next steps.
Next move: Send a one-line directive: 'Tell me the earliest date you can come see me.' Move her toward ritual-acceptance.
Hard constraints: Do not apologize. Do not break frame to chase.
Expected register for next reply: dom-command
refreshed 2026-09-24T13:57:18+00:00
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